Is it guilt?

There are many things that I don't have in my life which most people do.  Besides the fact that I don't have a husband or children, I do want to believe that I don't have them by choice.  I did frequently agree with the notion that marriage was a "trap" of sorts but I guess... Continue Reading →


Arrogance? Or Self-Confidence?

I have a story to tell tonight.  This is an old story and one that I was reminded of this evening while chatting with my cuz about people and the world.  This is a story that dates back to when I was only 14 years old and had wanted to work at a day camp... Continue Reading →



Each day, at least once per day, I have a thought I plan to blog about...whether it be about my job choice, my upcoming vacation or my relationship.  I always feel as though I am having a feeling, idea or emotion which should be explored through writing.  And then, quite frequently, I sit down to... Continue Reading →


Good-bye 2017…and hello 2018!

Less than 12 hours left in 2017! Has everyone accomplished what they had meant to accomplish during 2017? Have you all checked off those major items from your "to do" list?


I got this!

Every once in a while, I might see what I imagine to be a happy mother with a beautiful child in stroller or carriage and the thought might cross my, that really would have been so cool, to have become a mother. But I'm pretty sure there are a lot more women out there of all ages who look at me and my life who say to themselves, "Shit, I wish I had stayed single so I could have had her life."


To be grateful…

Every once in a while I throw a though I'm not getting my a teenager.  It's what I equate to things not going how I want or expected them having a feeling or emotion that I don't like and so I have to get up and start again.  When I say start... Continue Reading →


This one is my dream…

Those of you who do not know my "story," I invite you to read my story here to save me from having to repeat it, allowing me to pick up where I am now.  And I don't mean to be rude about it, but it has gotten super tiresome for me to keep explaining my... Continue Reading →


Happiness…what makes you happy?

How do we define happiness?  I used to be afraid that I might make decisions in my life that would lead to unhappiness... loneliness...isolation.  Yet at that time, I always prided myself in believing that so long as I was able to lay my head down at night with the ability to sleep with a... Continue Reading →


Stop the world from spinning…

...because I need to get off. I have always been the tough one among my friends.  Not that I'm unnecessarily daring or anything.  I've more been the one who had supported my friends in accomplishing things while accomplishing the same things along side saying..."Look if I can do it, so can you!"  So whether... Continue Reading →


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