Just a fleck on my map…

Ugh!  I just had such a difficult day!  I had a terrible call with a client that almost made me feel like a rookie in my own profession!  The best part of my day...and usually how I end most of them...was how I was able to vent about it to my cuz.  And what is... Continue Reading →


Who can you depend on?

Recently, I had a friend who was upset about something...and to be honest, I don't remember the circumstances or exactly what she had been upset about.  But I do remember my asking her who in her life had she always been able to depend on.  And at first, I don't think she understood my question. ... Continue Reading →


Is it guilt?

There are many things that I don't have in my life which most people do.  Besides the fact that I don't have a husband or children, I do want to believe that I don't have them by choice.  I did frequently agree with the notion that marriage was a "trap" of sorts but I guess... Continue Reading →


Happiness…how do you define it?

Today, I had a lengthy conversation with a client that not only made me laugh out loud but also lead me to start thinking.  The client, we can just say, is a relationship expert.  I run her business like I did for the lawyers back in NYC as well as for the other clients I... Continue Reading →


What happened to my passion?

Don't get me wrong, I do still jump out of bed each morning...but I feel like I may have lost some of my drive.  I remember a time in my life when I faced each day with such fury...but now I guess I'm realizing what a fleck on the map I really am. Politics have... Continue Reading →


Difficult conversations…

Frequently people come to me for advice about their love lives (and I don't really know why since I am 42 and unmarried).  Whether it be to just talk to someone about what they consider is going wrong with their love lives or as a way to practice what they plan to say to their... Continue Reading →


Do you feel famous yet?

When I was a kid, I accompanied my mother to an Andy Warhol exhibit at the Museum of Modern Art in NYC.  I believe I had a project due for school which required me to create a painting based on a geometrical shape, like a 3-D cylinder, or in Andy Warhol's world, a Campbell's soup... Continue Reading →


Who are we without our masks?

Tonight I was chatting with one of my most favorite people in the world...someone I know would take my back no matter what!  And just in passing, she mentioned someone in my life who I have always felt had always gotten away with his misdeeds...someone who she met during the wake of one of my... Continue Reading →



"I hope I can make it across the border. I hope to see my friend and shake his hand. I hope the Pacific is as blue as it has been in my dreams. I hope." -Red from The Shawshank Redemption I now imagine that I read those words in a short story by Stephen King... Continue Reading →


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