Just a fleck on my map…

Ugh!  I just had such a difficult day!  I had a terrible call with a client that almost made me feel like a rookie in my own profession!  The best part of my day...and usually how I end most of them...was how I was able to vent about it to my cuz.  And what is... Continue Reading →


Is it guilt?

There are many things that I don't have in my life which most people do.  Besides the fact that I don't have a husband or children, I do want to believe that I don't have them by choice.  I did frequently agree with the notion that marriage was a "trap" of sorts but I guess... Continue Reading →


What happened to my passion?

Don't get me wrong, I do still jump out of bed each morning...but I feel like I may have lost some of my drive.  I remember a time in my life when I faced each day with such fury...but now I guess I'm realizing what a fleck on the map I really am. Politics have... Continue Reading →


Difficult conversations…

Frequently people come to me for advice about their love lives (and I don't really know why since I am 42 and unmarried).  Whether it be to just talk to someone about what they consider is going wrong with their love lives or as a way to practice what they plan to say to their... Continue Reading →


Do you feel famous yet?

When I was a kid, I accompanied my mother to an Andy Warhol exhibit at the Museum of Modern Art in NYC.  I believe I had a project due for school which required me to create a painting based on a geometrical shape, like a 3-D cylinder, or in Andy Warhol's world, a Campbell's soup... Continue Reading →


Arrogance? Or Self-Confidence?

I have a story to tell tonight.  This is an old story and one that I was reminded of this evening while chatting with my cuz about people and the world.  This is a story that dates back to when I was only 14 years old and had wanted to work at a day camp... Continue Reading →



Each day, at least once per day, I have a thought I plan to blog about...whether it be about my job choice, my upcoming vacation or my relationship.  I always feel as though I am having a feeling, idea or emotion which should be explored through writing.  And then, quite frequently, I sit down to... Continue Reading →


Good-bye 2017…and hello 2018!

Less than 12 hours left in 2017! Has everyone accomplished what they had meant to accomplish during 2017? Have you all checked off those major items from your "to do" list?


I got this!

Every once in a while, I might see what I imagine to be a happy mother with a beautiful child in stroller or carriage and the thought might cross my mind...wow, that really would have been so cool, to have become a mother. But I'm pretty sure there are a lot more women out there of all ages who look at me and my life who say to themselves, "Shit, I wish I had stayed single so I could have had her life."


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